March 2026 Anthropological Office Hours: What If Civilization Was Built to Actualize Rather Than Extract?

This month’s Office Hours is open to everyone. If you’re not yet a paid subscriber on my substack, I’d love to invite you to a free trial on my substack for the paid tier and join the conversation in the comments. This post is meant to be interactive and invite conversation and a free trial on my substack will allow you the time to participate


For March, I didn’t have questions from my paid subscribers for Anthropological office hours, so I thought I would ask all of you a question instead.

Since I was an undergraduate student in anthropology, I’ve been asking myself the question, how do we take the wisdom of the variety of the worlds traditions and cultures, and synthesize it into something that applies to a technological society with a large globalized population that isn’t extractive and oppressive.

I’ve been asking that question for almost twenty years. I’ve been reading history, on indigenous social organization, speculative fiction, political science, anthropology, economics, ecology, religion, and literature with all of this in mind.

What I didn’t realize was that I was writing a possible answer in my sci-fi series, the Chronicles of the Great Migration. The truth is, I’ve actually been kind of stuck on some of the political elements of the cultures in my series until recently because I wanted to experiment with something that was non-extractive and that maximized every person and creature’s potential.

Below is the framework for the model. I recognize I am probably not the first person to make such a synthesis, and that I have plenty of blind spots in my knowledge. But I also recognize that if we have more people writing about solutions to imagine a different future, even if the perspectives are only a little different, then we move the goalpost. Because in the end, what we imagine matters. We cannot create a better future, where every being thrives, if we don’t imagine it.

What do I want from you? I’m looking for constructive criticism, additional things I should read or engage with. You may also highlight problems with some of my framing. Please put all of these in the comments. In the end, I’m hoping to write an essay making some of these ideas accessible, and then later create some accessible videos about some of these approaches.

I’m calling this synthesis Mother Empire, and it’s a challenge to our current system, which I call Father Empire. This chart presents a binary. As an anthropologist, I also know that binaries are often reductive. However, models can be useful things. They are tools to challenge the way we think about things so that we can examine them and then reframe our approach.

With climate change, a fractious political sphere, and economic inequality at the highest levels in known history, we desperately need new frameworks.

There’s something else too that we don’t think about when we talk about political organization. All beings experience trauma and oppression. When bear those burdens alone, they lead to wounded people inflicting more wounds on others. As a person who has experienced significant trauma in my own life, I’ve come to realize that leaving these things unaddressed also means that we cannot address our wider social and political problems. Therefore, I argue, that dealing with trauma must be a part of any useful model.

Here is the outline of one possible alternative.

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Mother Empire vs. Father Empire

A Theoretical Framework — Michael Kilman — Draft March 2026 — loridianslaboratory.com

Dimension Mother Empire (New Synthesis) Father Empire (Current Model)
Core Logic Incorporation (Actualizes Diverse Populations and Cultures) Extraction (Actualizes the powerful or those in close proximity to power)
Power Structure Dispersed – Power structures are nested alongside competing interests ensure no one group gains power for any significant amount of time. Utilizes checks and balances. Concentrated: Power becomes concentrated in the hands of the few, often in those who will seek power for power’s sake. Hierarchical and requires oppression to function.
Obligation Nested: reciprocal across layers of organization and governance. Communities indebted to one another and accountable to one another. Hierarchical: Flows upward, little accountability for those in positions of power.
Epistemology Relational: the individual is emergent from a system and participates in the shaping of it. Cartesian Dichotomy: I think, therefore I am. Nature versus Culture. The self is separate from world.
Species Framework Multispecies interconnectivity: Recognition that all ecology is important to the health of humanity and that human/animal relationships are vital to survival. Human supremacy / anthropocentric: Focused mostly on human interests. Ecology is there only for human benefit.
Economic Model Gift economic framework but nested in equal resource distribution. All work is democratic, all workers own their own labor. No one may accumulate wealth from another person’s labor. Ecosystems are people. Unlimited accumulation. Billionaires. Poverty as a method for increasing power. Austerity as a weapon of wealth concentration. Corporations (and systems of extraction) are people.
Relationship to Nature Participant in a large web of knowing across species. Levies the intelligence present across all natural systems. All beings are relatives. Owner of the world, control is paramount. Beings exist to serve humans. Only humans are intelligent or at least worthy of agency.
Relationship to Difference Incorporation: Difference strengthens the network by actualizing diverse talents and ideas. Elimination or subordination: Differences threaten hierarchy and the need for control.
Legitimacy Source Consent, consensus, reciprocity, and compromise. Force, propaganda, state violence, and coercive contracts.
Weaknesses Fragmentation if social obligations break down or the community becomes too large. Collapses when nothing is left to extract.
Relationship to Trauma Metabolizes and distributes pain across networks and community. Communal grieving, mutual support. Isolation in suffering. The burden is on the individual. Grief is private.
Real-World Examples Mughal Empire, Indigenous governance, mycorrhizal networks British Empire, late-stage capitalism, techno-feudalism
Relationship to Time Long-term thinking, seven generations model. Short-term thinking. Takes from future generations.
Ultimate Goal Maximum potential of all sentient beings Maximum control by a select few

This framework is a work in progress. If you have thoughts, critiques, additional readings to suggest, or problems with my framing, join the conversation on substack.

All My Books Are Free Until March 8th 2025!!!

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News, Podcasts, A Writing Workshop, and Publishing Updates September 2024

Hey all, I know it’s been a while since I have had updates so I have several things to post about today. Sorry for the long message, but I’ve broken things down so you can easily skim to the information you want.

The first is the reason that things are so delayed. This summer I joined Teach for America and last month I officially became a High School English and Language Arts teacher for 11th and 12th grade. Let me tell you, that’s an extremely busy job.

Despite the very long hours I am working right now, I’ve managed to make a lot of steady progress on my forthcoming novels. I am currently on a streak of 574 days or writing without skipping. 500 or so of those days had a minimum of 1000 words a day. So I make progress on something every single day (though I must admit at least 50 of those days I deleted the words right after I finished them but hey, you gotta get those bad words out of the way for the good ones to shine).

Here is the current status of my books that I am actively working on:

Shades and Shapes in the Dark is currently in it’s final pass before it heads off to the editor. ETA for book 1 is either October 17th or November 17th depending on the amount of edits required (How much red pen my editor uses).

The series is now 4 books with the following titles and progress level:

Book 1 “Shades and Shapes in the Dark” is in final edits with an ETA in October or November.

Book 2 “Though An Endless Darkness Gleaming” is 75% of Draft 1

Book 3: “An Illumination of Extraordinary Madness” is 50% of Draft 1

Book 4: “The Nature of Twilight At Dawn” is 30% of Draft 1

I currently expect to finish draft 1 of Book 2 by November 1st and to use NaNoWriMo to finish (or get close to finishing) the first draft of book 3

The Children of AEIS and The Chronicles of the Great Migration final two books, A War For the Heavens and A Hand to the Stars are still on their way. The Children of AEIS is sitting at around 75% first draft completion. The largest reason for the delay was a major concussion only two months after the release of Serah of the Runners. This derailed me pretty solidly and right now, when I have free time on top of writing, I am working through creating notes of the 4 books because my memory of them appears to be a little lacking from first the injury and then the passage of time. But, they are in progress and they absolutely will get finished sometime in the near future.

Welcoming the Muse


My poetic essay, Writing is Living was selected for publication by Twenty Bellows Press this summer. The piece is about life as an author in the 21st century. There will be a release party sometime this fall and I will provide more information as the date approaches. Needless to say, I’m thrilled to have another short of mine published this year. That makes 2 short pieces of writing picked up by publishers.

How to Write for the Future Podcast

I also recently appeared on a second episode of Write for the Future. This podcasts covers some basics of worldbuilding. The host also spent time across several episodes highlighting some of the key features of Kyra Wellstrom and I’s book, Build Better Worlds. I have linked the second episode where I guest starred as well as the episodes that surround our book below.

Part 1

Part 2

Additional Episodes that Cover Our Book

What is Cultural Context? (Build Better Worlds, 1 of 4)

Myth, Imagined Past, and Cultural Purity in Fiction (Build Better Worlds, 2 of 4)

The Sacred: Religion and Mysticism (Build Better Worlds, 3 of 4)

Economics: More Than Money and Markets (Build Better Worlds, 4 of 4)

Twenty Bellows Writing Retreat in Denver, CO

My last piece of news is that back in July I was asked to teach a session at the Creative Colorado Writers Retreat hosted by Twenty Bellows Publishing Company. I feel so honored to be a part of this retreat as it includes some of the most talented and knowledgeable writers in Denver.

You can find out more about this retreat here


That’s it for updates (I know there were a lot). I’m confident my next update will be release news! I hope everyone is having a great holiday weekend (if you’re American and reading this).

Happy 4th Birthday Mimi of the Nowhere! An Announcement, Why My Series Isn’t Dystopian, And Why Book 5 Has Been Slow Coming

Today is the 4th anniversary of my first novel, Mimi of the Nowhere going live on Amazon, Kobo, and Barnes and Noble. In the last 4 years, there have been four books published in the series since that date, with more on the way. I am approaching the end of the first draft of book 5, The Children of AEIS and expect it to be out late summer.

For those who of you who have been following the series, you may have noticed it’s been two years between book 4 and book 5. Why is this? Well, as I am sure so many of you have experienced, the Covid-19 pandemic made life a bit more complicated for a while. But in addition to that, in June of 2020 I suffered a major head injury during a cycling accident. I struggled to read or write anything for almost 6 months. I would have occasional little bursts of creativity during that time, but I wrote and read very little. I was diagnosed with post concussion syndrome and I can say now, that after almost 2 years, I finally have a great deal of normality with only occasional concussion related issues.

This spring and summer I am back in the full swing of writing. And so there is another announcement. The Children of AEIS became rather lengthy, well over 1000 pages. If you’ve been following the series, you might no why… the world went from one walking city, to multiple, and then in book 4… the whole solar system began to open up. Because of it’s length, I have decided to split it into two books. Which will release within six months of each other. The new entry to the series, means the series will now be seven books in length. Book six is titled, “A War For The Heavens.” While book 5 focuses on the survivors of the aftermath of the Battle for Langeles, book 6 will return back to Manhatsten with their new allies the Lunites, and a conflict that is growing with ROAM. Book 7, A Hand to the Stars, will focus on the final battles for the fate of all remaining walking cities and the solar system itself.

You know, another thing I have been thinking about… my series never really fit quite right into the dystopian literature. Things are hard yes, but not hopeless. There is a lot of oppression, a lot of social control, but there are good things as well. It’s much more complex than the label of dystopian. My project here isn’t to talk about how awful society can be and the fear around the slide downhill… instead, this series is something different. I recently discovered an article on polytopias, about stories where the fundamental driving force of the story is that of change and diversity itself. I realized that the heart of everything happening my fictional universe fits this approach so much better. Definitely give that article a read if you want more info about polytopias. The author correctly points out Kim Stanley Robinson’s Mars trilogy and the Expanse as important examples of polytopias, and stories about change and diversity are definitely my approach.

Thank you to all of you who continue to follow my work. I appreciate every single one of you. I don’t have many fans, but the ones I do are the absolute best.

Terminal Decay: A Short Story in the Chronicles of the Great Migration

Recently I have decided to take some of my unpublished short stories in my sci-fi series, The Chronicles of the Great Migration and begin recording them and uploading them to YouTube. This will be an ongoing series with occasional releases that add to the world in which my story takes place.

The first entry in this series is titled Terminal Decay. In it:

A sentient satellite falls to earth and reflects on it’s life and the state of humanity, who is now relegated to living inside giant walking cities.

I hope you enjoy it!

Cover Reveal for The Children of AEIS!!!

The Children of AEIS, the fifth book in my sci-fi series The Chronicles of the Great Migration, now has a cover! I am so incredibly happy with this cover. The artwork for this cover was created by the very talented Jon Stubbington. Definitely check out his amazing work.

Though I don’t have a firm date for release for the book yet, it will certainly be out before the end of spring of 2022. The Children of AEIS is the penultimate entry into this series, followed finally by A Hand to the Stars.

From the back of the book:

In the penultimate entry of the Chronicles of The Great Migration, Alexa Turon, Runner 17, Major Daniels, and their allies must learn the secrets of the mysterious AEIS and the underground city of Lastion if they hope to discover the key to defeat Miranda once and for all. Above, those aboard Manhatsten scrambles to deal with a new crisis from ROAM.

But from the ashes of the Battle for Langeles and the conflict with the Children of Gaia, a new power rises, one unlike any the world has ever known. It has only one goal, to consume.



CoTGM now available on Kindle Unlimited and Other News

Happy New Year 2021!

As of this morning my sci-f books, the Chronicles of the Great Migration, are availabe on Kindle Unlimited. You can find them here Read Chronicles of the Great Migration on KU The books will remain in KU for the forseeable future. This includes the final two books in the series.

In Non-Fiction News:

Build Better Worlds: An Introduction to Anthropology for Game Designers, Fiction Writers, and Filmmakers is in it’s final stages (we have been reediting it from the textbook version to make it more accessible to the general public for the last ten weeks) and we will be launching it on Feb 1st.

In Book 5 News:

The Children of AEIS (CotGM Book 5) is well on it’s way now (hit 25k words this week) and will be my main focus for the January version of NaNoWriMo. At the moment I am shooting for an April 17th publication but this book is turning out to be even bigger than I imagined (in a good way) and may well top the aprox. 600 pages of Serah of the Runners so it could get pushed back some.

In Audiobook News:

Mimi of the Nowhere is finished recording. It is now in editing it. I am shooting for a January 17th release of the audiobook of Mimi of the Nowhere. With the other’s following on its heels.

In Anthropology in 10 or Less News:

Two new episodes of Anthropology in 10 or Less are in post production and coming in the next few weeks with scripts mostly finished for 2 more episodes (probably released Feb). The goal is to put at least 2 episodes out a month for 2021 and possibly more if they gain some traction in views and patreon support. The more time I have, the more I will make.

More updates as I have them. I hope you have all had a wonderful start to the new year so far.

Mimi of the Nowhere became a finalist in a best sci-fi contest!

This weekend I received and email that a contest I entered back in March (you know like 2000 years ago with Covid-19) officially decided that Mimi of the Nowhere was in one of the top ten finalists for best sci-fi novel.

Personally I think Mimi of the Nowhere looks fantastic when I added the sticker they gave to the finalists! If you haven’t had a chance to check it out, you can find Mimi of the Nowhere at the following link (note: Paperbacks are only currently available through Amazon) https://books2read.com/u/4AYgNo

Free Book! USC: The Winds of Change is Free Right Now

Hi all,

Given the state of the world, I have decided to make Upon Stilted Cities: The Winds of Change free on Prolific works for the time being. Basically you can go to the link below and get a copy (and sign up for my newsletter if you like but it’s optional). I hope you enjoy book 2! Remember to rate and review if you choose to pick it up.

Get it here!
https://claims.prolificworks.com/free/HpISK51v